Tuesday, August 19, 2008

If You Bite Your Nails Can They Be Digested

Contention between pairs of effective communication


This is a torment that causes us major headaches, am I right? Many breaks, screaming and discussions have come to be so by a lack of effective communication. But why? Because in these barbaric times not found a way to cover all the dilemmas that haunt us, threatening us and make us fight, when we want to put all our best to solve them. What makes us shout louder with each word that happens if we do that? Why? We love our wives, respect, what is wrong? What is wrong is that we fail intelligently.

communication serves to express what we feel, but on the occasions of discussion, sometimes we get so much urgency that we have inside, we stopped along the right way we should do so. We forget about your feelings and we are concerned about ours. That logic is not it? Without bringing it to light, we care more about what we can come inside, so when we do not stop discussing it. Not so much the problem itself the real cause of the fights, what happens is that we dedicate ourselves to defend our people in a crackdown against the other.

So here is the key to solving quarrels, the next time you come see the next row, keep your head quiet, go to your wife, analyze it, you'll quickly on his face the real problem. Then, in a calm talk to him so that I know you hear it and that what matter most is help in that momnto. Before

note that to take that huge step deals with a great sacrifice of oneself. A sacrifice of our reason, our problems, our woes. But also that the reward is immense. Things changed for her for your help and then the same happened with you for your help. It is this change in one of two that always needed, is difficult, but when one does, the gains for both are very beneficial.

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